Tommy and I clashed a lot as newlyweds.
Which just broke my heart because while I expected disagreements after the wedding (because we were mentored to expect imperfection) I thought the resolution would be quick, sweet and calm.
But resolving issues was anything but fast or smooth. He was detached and angry. I was furious, frustrated, weepy, bewildered, heartbroken.
And maybe I would have been less sorrowful if the disagreements happened once in a while and lasted a short amount of time.