Sometimes in marriage, it’s easier to spot the speck in our spouses eye than the log in our own.
We are particularly gifted at it as earlywed wives – laser focus on his problems, lesser focus on our own.
We don’t see how our response to “his problem” affects our hearts and the condition of our marriage.
I was once a gold-star-level problem-spotter.
I could pray and agonize about my husbands issues, with very little focus on my own.