Our first and second year of marriage were challenging. We were not doing well in our communication and that spilled to other areas. But by God’s grace, we kept growing and learning.
Looking back, I see we were like most newlyweds. We loved each other to bits and believed in our marriage (most of the time!) but we were new at matrimony, completely in over our heads!
But at that time, a stranger looking at our marriage from the outside might have judged our marriage completely unhealthy.
Not because we were overly unsound, but because we were at a messy season and they were looking from the outside.