Sometimes back, I read an article by Paul Byerly on creating relaxed relationship time.
“Relationships take time – but not just time, they take relaxed time. You cannot set aside an hour a day to “have your relationship” and just stop everything and set it aside when that hour rolls around. You cannot cram your life so full that a five-minute delay ruins the rest of your day and expect to have the emotional rest necessary for a good marriage”
Most marrieds work hard to strike balance between the daily demands of life and their marriage.