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Hey there! I’m Ngina!


I’m so happy you stopped by! I’m a certified marriage coach, author and blogger. I’m on a mission to help women find clarity so they can address marriage problems with courage and confidence. I examine unhealthy relationship advice and how elevating the marriage institution above individual welfare has harmed us. Join me and together let’s explore what it means to be healthy and whole!

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