Author: Ngina Otiende

Hi! I'm Ngina and I'm a certified marriage coach, author, and blogger. I'm on a mission to help women find clarity so they can begin to address problems. I examine unhealthy relationship advice and how elevating the marriage institution above individual welfare has harmed us. I love Jesus, my sweet guy and a hot cup of tea.. Join the Adventure
Why We Should Stop Asking Single Women When They are Getting Married
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Why We Should Stop Asking Single Women When They are Getting Married

One of my biggest pet peeve as a single woman was the question; “Sooo, when are you getting married?“ I heard it from colleagues, some friends and family, even strangers. And things haven’t change since I got married. Single women still get asked the same question and it’s variations “Why are you not married yet?”…

My Engagement Story – What I Learned About Leaving and Cleaving
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My Engagement Story – What I Learned About Leaving and Cleaving

What can engagement teach you about marriage and personal growth? I remember that evening, bounding into my mom’s house late in the night. It was a dark African night. A few brave stars twinkled down, seemingly singing along with the sparkling new ring on my middle finger. I had it all planned out in my…