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I’m just wondering why some Christians spend so much time disempowering women. Why is it so important that women are small and men are big? Bookmark the thought: I’m from the Kikuyu tribe, one of the 42 main tribes of Kenya. As a tribe, we have an origin story (close to the Judeo-Christian of Adam…
“God does not force people to change” is an unsettling thought for some. Whenever I talk about how God does not force people to change or post something around that point on social media, while most people get it, others do not. I have written about this before, and you can check it out: Why…
Is she leaving a healthy relationship? I do what I do because the thought of more women continuing to believe they are having routine marriage problems when they are not is crushing to me. My one goal is to offer clarity to that individual who believes her hard is a typical day of marriage and to support…
A few days ago, I shared these words on Instagram: “Lord, you are all the Divine parent my spouse needs” is a marriage prayer to be normalized. Culture and Christianity often ask women to be moms and saviors of their husbands. “Cover” aka mop up after immaturity. Absorb and persevere through impossible dysfunctional ways of…
Spouses in destructive marriages are often accused of having an aversion to marriage conflict. They are told to develop relationship muscles to help them address and solve relationship problems. tw: betrayal “Everyone says something they don’t mean. Everyone forgets sometimes. Come on, he’s begging for forgiveness” is said to the wife, who confesses she no…
Are we victim blaming when we discuss post trauma growth? Since I changed my writing focus, I have been honored to connect with leaders, coaches, and individuals in the domestic violence awareness and clarity space. Many of these individuals are affected by domestic violence in one form or another. They are all passionate about raising…