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Things Men Say to Female Writers (and Other Pro-Health Content Creators)
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Things Men Say to Female Writers (and Other Pro-Health Content Creators)

A few days ago, a male content creator shared about the criticism he receives from fellow men when he addresses poor behavior by men without caveats. According to his critics, adding “not all men” or “some men” in his commentary would make it clear to everyone that he’s not referring to all man/not all men…

When Pastors Exploit in the Name of Christ
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When Pastors Exploit in the Name of Christ

Sometimes in evangelical churches, people are a means to an end. Pastors approach pastoring from a numbers or “growth” perspective. Instead of a shepherd-who-CARES-and-NURTURES-people mindset. I spent years in a high-demand, high-control church in Kenya (where I’m from), a church plant by an American missionary couple. One thing that was always in short supply in…

It’s Here! My New Book Courage: Reflection and Liberation for Hurting Soul is Now Available!
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It’s Here! My New Book Courage: Reflection and Liberation for Hurting Soul is Now Available!

Sometimes, the problem in Christian marriages is that one person is encouraged to have a “team mindset” while the other is allowed to carry along, unconfronted about their self-centeredness. Sometimes, the problem is that one partner absorbs all the responsibilities of relating while the other “enjoys” the benefits. The gap between what happens to us…