Blues to Bliss: Creating Your Happily Ever After in the Early Years

Are you wrestling with the overwhelm of new marriage?

Is shutting down, distance, passive-aggressiveness common place in your relationship? Do you long for the joy and happiness you had when you walked down the aisle?

Or perhaps you are happily married but want to break out of average and mediocre. You want to love deeper, understand your husband and this marriage deal you signed up for.

Your marriage can change!

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Blues to Bliss - Creating Your Happily Ever After in the Early Years

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We’ve heard that marriage is a land of endless bliss and “the honeymoon” years are sunshine and rainbows. What if that is not true? At least not the whole truth.

What happens when we walk into marriage expecting bliss without effort? How do we escape the trap of wheel-turning in blues land – the sometimes painful adjustments and challenges of early marriage – and break into enduring bliss?

I will be celebrating 14yrs of marriage in December and I know it’s gonna be different this time round. Blues to Bliss is helping me look at marriage in a different light. I love it! Ruth, wife

I seek to answer these questions in a Biblical and practical way that will impact and change your marriage! I share from my own marriage, how God changed my focus: from trying to change my husband and control my marriage, to desiring a depth and fulfillment that comes from doing marriage His way.

In my book, Blues to Bliss, we tackle many hot spots found in the early years of marriage

  • Communication
  • Sex
  • Finances
  • Family
  • Intimacy
  • Singular mindsets
  • Boundaries
  • Expectations

Specifically, you will learn how to

  • Intentionally pursue your vows, in the midst of life’s mess.
  • Cultivate a fierce determination to honor God first, before your spouse.
  • Take personal responsibility for your issues.
  • Find courage to keep your spouse accountable.
  • Plus more!

Honest truth with a touch of humor and just the right amount of tough love to this topic, B, Amazon Review

If you are an imperfect girl married to an imperfect guy, this book is for you. You don’t have to struggle; you can create a great marriage, out of the ashes.

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Who this book is for

  • Newlywed wives.
  • Wives who don’t consider themselves newlywed but are still in the early years of marriage.
  • Older wives who want to examine and re-establish their marriage foundations.
  • Single women who are dating/in a relationship.

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 Kind words about Blues to Bliss..

“This book by my friend Ngina Otiende has just jumped into first place of all my favorite books on marriage for several reasons: 1) it’s immensely practical with lots of examples, 2) it’s written by a woman so it includes so much of the emotional journey that is missing in some of the books written by men, even though I like the books by men as well, 3) it’s fun to read with lots of examples – I laughed out loud in some spots, and 4) Ngina keeps directing us back to God again and again for help with our marriage problems. I highly recommend it! ” Barb Raveling, Author & Blogger

“A great read conveying the reality of being in a God centered marriage! More often than not, the journey to a happy fulfilling marriage seems long and windy, full of many disappointments and unmet expectations. Ngina shares her experience on this journey in this book with unmatched freshness, clarity and insights. It is a must read for all newlyweds!” Dr Anne Kamau

“I will be celebrating 14yrs of marriage in December and I know it’s gonna be different this time round. Blues to Bliss is helping me look at marriage in a different light. I love it!” Ruth, wife

“Thank you for taking a step of faith and writing this book! It has impacted me greatly. I am very encouraged about what God is doing in my heart since I began to read the principles in the book. Total mind-shift for me.” Wanza, wife.

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How to turn your marriage from blues to bliss - treat your husband the way Christ expects, not the way he deserves. Excerpt from the book

Marriage cannot survive on left-overs. It needs your best attention. Here's how to develop that attention

 It's alright to have and share expectations in marriage. Just remember to surrender them to Jesus first. Learn how here

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