Personal Growth

Does He Know He’s Hurting Me? (Clarity for Wives)
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Does He Know He’s Hurting Me? (Clarity for Wives)

What if my husband doesn’t know he’s hurting me? “Some men grow up in dysfunction. Their inner world is so up-side down they don’t know how “healthy” looks like. What if my husband is just repeating behavior he witnessed growing up? What if he doesn’t know?” Women in hurting marriages sometimes struggle with these questions….

15 Reasons Why Women Stop Believing in Wife-Only Submission
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15 Reasons Why Women Stop Believing in Wife-Only Submission

Recently, on Facebook, I shared my experience with wife-only submission and why my husband and I changed our minds. I used to believe in women-only submission, and I thought it was a universal Christian practice that women submit to their husbands. In our marriage, though, my husband and I practiced partnership. While chatting/supporting other couples,…

It’s Here! My New Book Courage: Reflection and Liberation for Hurting Soul is Now Available!
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It’s Here! My New Book Courage: Reflection and Liberation for Hurting Soul is Now Available!

Sometimes, the problem in Christian marriages is that one person is encouraged to have a “team mindset” while the other is allowed to carry along, unconfronted about their self-centeredness. Sometimes, the problem is that one partner absorbs all the responsibilities of relating while the other “enjoys” the benefits. The gap between what happens to us…