What’s a wife to do when she feels like she doesn’t have time for sex?
How can she work through exhaustion and busyness, so her bedroom doesn’t suffer?
There’s plenty a woman can do but before we get into that…
Picture a woman who wakes up at the crack of dawn to catch a few minutes of prayer and Bible reading. The time goes by fast, and before long it’s time to fix breakfast, bag lunches and meal prep for dinner.
Then a quick shower and catching up with hubby as they get ready for work. She’s out of the door by 7am – only to hit the morning rush.
Her day is busy – deadlines, meetings, lunch with a colleague going through family problems and midday catch up with hubby. The afternoon comes by, and angry customers take up most of it.
Evening – time to drop by the market to pick last minute groceries, then rush home to prepare dinner. There’s dishes, a call to mum, an urgent email from work, laundry.
And her husband.
He wants sex every.day.of.the.week. At least that’s how she feels. Most days she excuses herself and falls into exhausted sleep.
But she’s getting tired of being so tired for sex, of having no time for sex.
Beyond the annoyance she feels unloved and misunderstood. Her husband too, feels frustrated and unloved.
How can she change the dynamics of intimacy so her marriage doesn’t completely disintegrate? How can she beat the busyness, utter exhaustion and zero libido?
Two things need to happen;
1) A mindset shift
2) Small tweaks in her day to get her started in the right direction.
See, we can learn to create margin for intimacy in marriage even when life is busy.
After all God did not create intimacy for husbands to enjoy and wives to endure: He created sex for both wife and husband to savor!
If you are busy and exhausted, use these 5 simple tips in the video below to get you started in the right direction! (Remember to Subscribe to my Youtube channel so you are the first to know when I post a new video! Like, Share, and leave a Comment!)
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