Married But Attracted to Someone Else? Here's What You Need To Do

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Are you married but feeling attracted to someone else who is not your spouse?

Most spouses who want to remain faithful to their vows will likely be filled with guilt and condemnation.

I made a quick video to encourage those who feel pulled and torn by this attraction.

If you have never felt attracted to someone who is not your spouse, (See this Emotional Affair – Guarding Your Heart as a Wife) all the more reason to watch the video so you know how to respond if you do.

Being married doesn’t make us immune to temptation. We have physical eyes that see other men who are likely cuter, more fun, more affluent, more educated, etc. than your beloved.

Also, just because you are newlywed doesn’t mean the enemy of marriage is asleep. Or that you are immune to being pulled apart, especially when you have other issues in your marriage.

Married but feeling attracted to someone else who is not your spouse? Here's how to deal with this type of attraction and pull outside marriageClick To Tweet

Certainly, I don’t mean to upset you: you are a new couple, madly in love, and it’s just a weird time to think you’d have eyes for anyone other than your sweetheart.

But 1) the devil is real 2) you are human. Get equipped, learn how to deal with this type of temptation.

Jump on over to YouTube or IGTV or Facebook to watch the video “When you are attracted to someone who is not your spouse”

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