Hello friend!
Welcome to The Intentional Wife Resources page!
Here, you’ll find some of my best resources for marriage, including some of my favorite things and recommended reads/activities to help your relationship thrive, not just exist!
Some of the resources are based on frequently asked questions from my readers.
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My Favorite Marriage Things
Intimacy
(Click on the links to learn more)
The Good Girls Guide to Great Sex
Boost Your Libido e-Course
Hot Holy Humorous – Sex in Marriage
Organizational
Evernote App
Wunderlist App
Check out this post for more info and more Apps: Top 10 Productivity Apps and How They Help Me in Marriage
Past times with hubby
Fun Ideas For Your Marriage
“Why I love My Husband List” – Create an ongoing love story about your man!
20 board games to play with your husband
A Year of Questions For You and Your Spouse – Get to know each other better!
Printable sticky notes – with over 100 designs to help you celebrate, apologize, or just show-the-love to your husband!
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Recommended Marriage Books
Early Years of Marriage
The Wedding Night: Embracing Sexual Intimacy as New Bride by Ngina Otiende
Blues to Bliss: Creating Your Happily Ever After In The Early Years by Ngina Otiende
Prayers For New Brides: Putting on God’s Armor After The Wedding Dress by Jennifer O. White
The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex: (And You Thought Bad Girls Have All the Fun) by Sheila Wray Gregoire
General Marriage
When Sinners Say “I do”: Discovering The Power of the Gospel for Marriage by Dave Harvey
9 Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage: Because a Great Marriage Doesn’t Happen By Accident by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Happy Wives Club: One Woman’s Worldwide Search for the Secrets of a Great Marriage by Fawn Weaver.
The Five Love Languages: The Secret to love that Lasts by Gary D Chapman
Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul by John Eldredge
Difficult Marriage
Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Just Isn’t Good Enough by
Hope for The Hurting Wife by Rebekah Hallberg and Jen Stults
Premarital Preparation
The Wedding Night: Embracing Sexual Intimacy as New Bride by Ngina Otiende
Act of Marriage: The Beauty Of Sexual Love by Tim & Beverly LaHaye
Articles to Help Fight Pornography
When your husband won’t address his porn problem
Dealing with your husbands porn addiction
My Husband is Trying to Deal with His Porn Addiction, but He’s Not Getting Better
When your husband says “my porn addiction isn’t about you”
4 things you must do if your husband uses porn
How to deal with a husbands pornography use, a man’s perspective
Should you marry someone who uses porn?
I am a Christian wife who thought I was gay
Christian response to 50 shades of grey
Top ten things to know about women and pornography.
Why addictions drag on and how to stay free
Free ebooks and downloads to help fight pornography
Articles for High Drive Wife/Low Drive Husband
Support group for wives going through sexual problems in marriage (high drive and low drive)
To the wife with the higher libido
When your husband has lower sex drive
Why doesn’t my husband want to make love, a series
Articles to Strengthen Marriage When One Spouse Travels
8 ways to nurture your marriage when your spouse travels for work
How to keep a strong marriage when your husband travels, a 2-part series
Articles for Wives in Difficult Marriages
Support Group for wives standing in faith for their marriage
When your husband runs, don’t chase him
Marry a partner not a child (healthy boundaries in marriage and how to keep and enforce)
When your husband won’t address his low libido
What to do when in an unequally yoked marriage
When you want to quit your job but your husband is unsure
How to Say Hard Things to Your Husband
Why is it Me (Wife) Who Has to Change to Fix the Marriage?
Healing from an Affair
I just found out my husband cheated
Can God Heal Any Marriage of Infidelity?
Forgiving Your Husband after broken trust
I Cheated on My Husband – How Do We Rebuild?
Take The 5 Love Languages Test
Take the five love languages test
Fight Depression
Postpartum Depression in plain mama English
Avoiding depression: Try to stay ahead of the pain.
Divorce
Surviving and Thriving after Divorce
Staying pure while you are divorced and dating
Singles: Warning Signs of Destructive Relationships
Deal Breakers – Advice to Single Women
Great Marriage Websites to Follow
For Husband
Husband Revolution by Aaron Smith
The Generous Husband by Paul Byerly
For Wives
To Love Honor and Vacuum Sheila Gregoire (sex and marriage advice)
Hot holy & humorous J Parker (sex and marriage advice, tips and techniques)
Unveiled wife Jennifer Smith
Happy Wives Club Fawn Weaver
Messy Marriage Beth Steffaniak
Popular Articles on This Blog
Most popular posts on this site (by readership )
10 things every bride should know before her wedding night
36 bible verses to encourage your marriage
Protect your marriage; keep boundaries with the opposite sex
102 marriage marriage and love quotes to inspire your marriage
9 scriptures to pray over your husband
Is masturbation wrong for singles?
Recommended articles
Read these articles for a deeper understanding on what it takes to create a grace-bathed intentional happily ever after.
Understanding my identity in Christ as a wife
5 things that limit your growth as a wife
What holds your marriage together?
The 2 lies earlywed wives believe and what to do about it
4 things to remember when your husband disappoints you
Your husband wants your respect more than your love
Your husband is not the problem
3 ways to support your husband as the leader
5 ways you can build your marriage today
Going the extra mile in marriage
Blog Posts by Categories
Under the following categories, you’ll find different articles specific to that topic.
My Guest Posts
Besides my writing on this blog, I have written for these wonderful sites.
Our Identity and beauty as women Hot, Holy & Humorous
To the wife who wants more: 3 things to focus on Christian Wife University
Diffusing marriage tensions before they become big storms Christian Wife University
Dealing with wounds from our upbringing Christian Wife University
Top 10 mistakes I did as a new bride – To Love Honor and Vacuum
Why your marriage needs community at To Love Honor & Vacuum
Marriage in Africa Versus Marriage in America at To Love Honor & Vacuum
Intentionally Single? at Single Roots
4 Leadership Lessons from My Marriage at Dan Black on Leadership
3 Areas I Watch out For When it Comes to Success at Dan Black On Leadership
When God Steps in and Interrupts the Rhythm of our Lives at Brandon Gilliland
4 keys To Living An Intentional Life at Rebel For His Cause
When You Don’t Understand God at Joseph Iregbu
Finding the Real Problem is the Problem at Uknown Jim
Christian Writers: Weak But Still Called at Godly Writers
Why There’s No Market called “Everyone” at Godly Writers
Living His Vision at Reflections from the Alley
Why You Need Courage to Follow Your Dream Tales of Work
Thank you for reading!
Blessings to you and your husband.