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Articles for Wives in Difficult Marriages
Christian husbands suffer first
When your husband talks to other women, 12 things to do
When Your Husband is the Problem But Everyone Tells You to Change
Christian Marriage and Divorce: When You Have Done Enough
Boundaries in Marriage: 5 Guidelines For Setting Boundaries With a Difficult Spouse
What Does Submission in Marriage Really Mean?
When You Want to Submit But Your Husband Doesn’t Lead
Husband is Discouraged? 9 Ways You Can Help
How Humility Changed the Course of Our Marriage
Steal His Heart: Practicing Kindness in Marriage Even When He’s Undeserving
Of Oral Sex and Inhibitions – Spicing Up Your Marriage Within Godly Limits
Silent Treatment in Marriage – Why It Doesn’t Work and What To Do Instead
When Your Husband Doesn’t Respect You 5 Things to Do
When your husband runs, don’t chase him
Marry a partner not a child (healthy boundaries in marriage and how to enforce them)
What to do when in an unequally yoked marriage
When you want to quit your job but your husband is unsure
How to Say Hard Things to Your Husband
Why is it Me (Wife) Who Has to Change to Fix the Marriage?
When Your Husband Doesn’t Want to Spend Time with You
Support Group for wives standing in faith for their marriage
Articles For When an Affair Rocks Your Marriage
I just found out my husband cheated
Can God Heal Any Marriage of Infidelity?
Forgiving Your Husband after broken trust
Articles to Help Fight Depression
Postpartum Depression in plain mama English
Avoiding depression: Try to stay ahead of the pain.
Articles on Abuse in Marriage
I think my husband abuses me, now what?
64 Abusive Actions that Spell Trouble for Your Marriage
Articles to Help Fight Pornography
When your husband won’t address his porn problem
Dealing with your husbands porn addiction
My Husband is Trying to Deal with His Porn Addiction, but He’s Not Getting Better
When your husband says “my porn addiction isn’t about you”
4 things you must do if your husband uses porn
How to deal with a husbands pornography use, a man’s perspective
Should you marry someone who uses porn?
I am a Christian wife who thought I was gay
Christian response to 50 shades of grey
Top ten things to know about women and pornography.
Why addictions drag on and how to stay free
Free ebooks and downloads to help fight pornography
Articles for High Drive Wife/Low Drive Husband
To the wife with the higher libido
When your husband has lower sex drive
When your husband won’t address his low libido
Why doesn’t my husband want to make love, a series
Articles to Strengthen Marriage When One Spouse Travels
8 ways to nurture your marriage when your spouse travels for work
How to keep a strong marriage when your husband travels, a 2-part series
Divorce
Surviving and Thriving after Divorce
Staying pure while you are divorced and dating
For Singles: Warning Signs of Destructive Relationships
Deal Breakers – Advice to Single Women
11 Signs of an Untrustworthy Husband
Should you marry the father of your baby
Take The 5 Love Languages Test
Take the five love languages test
Recommended Marriage Books
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Books for Early Years of Marriage
The Wedding Night: Embracing Sexual Intimacy as New Bride by Ngina Otiende
Blues to Bliss: Creating Your Happily Ever After In The Early Years by Ngina Otiende
Prayers For New Brides: Putting on God’s Armor After The Wedding Dress by Jennifer O. White
The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex: (And You Thought Bad Girls Have All the Fun) by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Cherish: The One Word that Changes Everything for Your Marriage Gary Thomas
Books for General Marriage
When Sinners Say “I do”: Discovering The Power of the Gospel for Marriage by Dave Harvey
9 Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage: Because a Great Marriage Doesn’t Happen By Accident by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Happy Wives Club: One Woman’s Worldwide Search for the Secrets of a Great Marriage by Fawn Weaver.
The Five Love Languages: The Secret to love that Lasts by Gary D Chapman
Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul by John Eldredge
Cherish: The One Word that will Change Everything for Your Marriage Gary Chapman
Books for a Difficult Marriage
Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Just Isn’t Good Enough by
Hope for The Hurting Wife by Rebekah Hallberg and Jen Stults
Books for Premarital Preparation
The Wedding Night: Embracing Sexual Intimacy as New Bride by Ngina Otiende
Act of Marriage: The Beauty Of Sexual Love by Tim & Beverly LaHaye
Popular Articles on This Blog
Most popular posts on this site (by readership )
When You Don’t Trust Your Husband
10 things every bride should know before her wedding night
36 bible verses to encourage your marriage
Two Powerful Keys to Help You Pray for Your Husband More Often
Is masturbation wrong for singles?
Blog Posts by Categories
Under the following categories, you’ll find different articles specific to that topic.
My Favorite Marriage Things
Intimacy
The Good Girls Guide to Great Sex
Boost Your Libido e-Course
Hot Holy Humorous – Sex in Marriage
Organizational
Check out this post for more info and more Apps: Top 10 Productivity Apps and How They Help Me in Marriage
Fun Ideas For Your Marriage
“Why I love My Husband List” – Create an ongoing love story about your man!
20 board games to play with your husband
A Year of Questions For You and Your Spouse – Get to know each other better!
Printable sticky notes – with over 100 designs to help you celebrate, apologize, or just show-the-love to your husband!
My Guest Posts
Besides my writing on this blog, I have written for these wonderful sites.
Our Identity and beauty as women Hot, Holy & Humorous
To the wife who wants more: 3 things to focus on Christian Wife University
Diffusing marriage tensions before they become big storms Christian Wife University
Dealing with wounds from our upbringing Christian Wife University
Top 10 mistakes I did as a new bride – To Love Honor and Vacuum
Why your marriage needs community at To Love Honor & Vacuum
Marriage in Africa Versus Marriage in America at To Love Honor & Vacuum
Intentionally Single? at Single Roots
4 Leadership Lessons from My Marriage at Dan Black on Leadership
3 Areas I Watch out For When it Comes to Success at Dan Black On Leadership
When God Steps in and Interrupts the Rhythm of our Lives at Brandon Gilliland
4 keys To Living An Intentional Life at Rebel For His Cause
When You Don’t Understand God at Joseph Iregbu
Finding the Real Problem is the Problem at Uknown Jim
Christian Writers: Weak But Still Called at Godly Writers
Why There’s No Market called “Everyone” at Godly Writers
Living His Vision at Reflections from the Alley
Why You Need Courage to Follow Your Dream Tales of Work
Other Great Marriage Websites to Follow
For Husband
Husband Revolution by Aaron Smith
The Generous Husband by Paul Byerly
For Wives
To Love Honor and Vacuum Sheila Gregoire (sex and marriage advice)
Hot holy & humorous J Parker (sex and marriage advice, tips and techniques)
Unveiled wife Jennifer Smith
Happy Wives Club Fawn Weaver
Messy Marriage Beth Steffaniak
Thank you for reading!
Blessings to you and your husband.