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Why it doesn't how much pastors apologize
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Why It Doesn’t Matter How Much Pastors Say “I’m Sorry”

It doesn’t matter how much pastors “apologize” if they don’t start with the truth. On Tuesday, Robert Morris, the senior leader of Gateway Church officially resigned. His resignation came a few days after admitting to an “inappropriate sexual behavior with a young lady” 35 years ago. But “young lady” she was not. “Inappropriate sexual behavior”…

What To Do When The Good News To The Abused and Betrayed Doesn’t Feel Like Good News To You
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What To Do When The Good News To The Abused and Betrayed Doesn’t Feel Like Good News To You

“Don’t forget your roots.” I used to get these reminders earlier in the year when I changed my writing focus. Some parts of my audience used to “regular marriage teachings” felt like I had pulled the rug from under their feet when I began discussing abuse in marriage. And over the last several months, I’ve come…