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Often, divorce is not the first thing that pops into a woman’s mind when her destructive spouse starts to pick her apart. But many Christians believe it is. So when a woman risks everything and opens up about her suffering, there’s a mad rush by Christians to “close the exits.” And they shutter up the…
Wife leaving marriage: Are Christian women leaving their husbands for frivolous reasons? Many Christians actually believe all or most women who divorce are leaving behind a good thing. There’s an assumption that whatever problems the couple had, they could have addressed them via more patience, prayer, submission, sex, or the ever-popular “hang in there because…
Can being a good wife fix a bad husband? A woman shared the advice her pastor gave her when she confided about abuse in her marriage: “Women have ways of getting a man to do whatever they want, and so a rebellious husband is the fruit of a disobedient wife.” Ridiculous, I know. Sadly, I…
Why does the church fail to condemn the wickedness that leads to divorce? A few months ago, I shared a post on Facebook, pleading with churches to address the real issues that lead to divorce instead of constantly denouncing the often life-saving act of divorce. “Instead of denouncing divorce, why don’t we (the body of…
“Divorce should be the last option for believers.” You’ve probably heard, perhaps even spoken, those words. A few weeks ago, I changed the direction of this website. In a kinda big way. I talked about the new direction and my reasons in this blog post: Why I’ve Deleted My Books, Courses, and Over 200 Blog…
“But why doesn’t she just leave him?” People will ask when they can’t wrap their heads around why an individual hasn’t left a toxic or highly problematic marriage. Once upon a time, I was Camp WhyDoesn’tSheJustLeaveHim. Like most, I assumed leaving a destructive marriage was as easy deciding what to eat for dinner. Well, maybe…