Exactly. My mother felt the need to perform duty sex when my father wanted it. The. He complained about her laying there like a cold fish in bed. Well he didn’t know how to please a woman ! I felt bad for her. Later she developed endometriosis and bled every day even wearing two tampons and he insisted on asking her in front of me or my sister “how’s the pussy?” Like he was entitled to sex with her. She told him “bloody!” Good for her ! And bad for young daughters that had to grow up around this! No wonder my own marriage was dysfunctional as well. I never respected him when he started bad mouthing my mother about sex when I was10