Books And Courses
Resources by Ngina Otiende empower you to address relationship problems with clarity and confidence so you can thrive.
Are you tired of harming theology and bad marriage advice?
Have you been told that the strength of a woman is in how well she adapts to a one-sided marriage? Are you tired of religious refrains being used to justify your hurting reality? Get Courage: Reflections and Liberation for Hurting Soul: my hope is that this book will provide you with language to tend to your hurt, remind you you deserve dignity and respect and that your autonomy is God-given and worth protecting. ORDER COURAGE ON AMAZON I PDF
“I love this book. It has been redemptive and healing in ways that are hard to explain. In this book, I have found a bearing witness to the raw, unbearable pain that has been experienced because of the toxicity of patriarchy – that is finely woven together with threads of liberation and love that erase shame and bring hope.” Amazon review
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It’s possible for marriage to feel light, fun and healthy, right from the start — without all the tired tropes to set the scene
My new book, “The Newlyweds” is all about helping couples explore what nurtures connection and what harms it. We can have amazing marriages – without gender-roles, 24/7 sacrifice and the erasure of personhood. We can recognize when our relationship is operating outside the framework of love and honor. “The Newlyweds” is like a one-on-one with a mentor and coach who validates the truth and doesn’t sugarcoat the hard stuff. If you are ready to create a marriage without hierarchies and learn to grow as equals, ORDER THE NEWLYWEDS HERE. (It’s an awesome gift for your favorite engaged or newlywed couple!)
“Thank you so much for writing the things we need to hear. I would not be where I am now without your words.” Reader
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“Your writings have helped me organize my thoughts and overcome bad teachings more than I could ever say. Thank you.” Laura B
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Marriage Coaching
Get 1:1 support as you navigate marriage and individual problems.
Are you feeling overwhelmed in marriage? Drifting because of unresolved conflict? “Going with the flow” but inside you’re unhappy and wishing for things to be different? Unable to find the words or explain to your spouse what you really want? Feeling unheard? Let me help you. Click here to learn more.
Coaching with Ngina provided the space to freely share my thoughts and feelings without judgment. I was able to open up and identify specific areas I want to improve for myself and my marriage. Ngina gave me suggestive feedback and challenged me to dive deeper into things I wanted to process. We maximized the time we had together and I got better insights and understanding. I recommend her coaching services to anyone who needs a marriage coach! Lucy, wife