Marriage Coaching

Marriage Coaching with Ngina Otiende

Are you

  • Feeling overwhelmed in marriage?
  • Drifting because of unresolved conflict?
  • “Going with the flow” but inside you’re unhappy and wishing for things to be different?
  • Unable to bring up hard topics without feeling like you’re walking on eggshells?
  • Frustrated by a spouse who struggles to engage/address problems?
  • Unable to define and explain to your spouse what you really want?
  • Feeling unheard?
  • Wondering how to break cycles of miscommunication so you and your husband can feel like a team again?
  • Unable to work through problems due to triggers?
  • Newlywed but feeling like giving up on growth areas?

Marriage coaching is a great option for you.

A special note to women in chronically hurting marriages: You deserve to be safe, and to thrive. If you suspect that your spouse is abusive, please consider clarity coaching with my friend Sarah McDugal. I do not offer coaching for women in abusive marriages.

Marriage coaching with Ngina Otiende - helping wives problem-solve and nurture marriage so they can thrive.

My name is Ngina Otiende, and I am a professional marriage coach. I help partners find clarity and confidence to address individual and relationship problems so they can really thrive.

Marriage Coaching with Ngina Otiende

Here’s what you can expect from our coaching relationship:

Coaching is an opportunity to work on areas you want to see growth and change. Coaching with me is a supportive and collaborative process that helps you explore and work towards your desired goals and outcomes.

My approach also involves distinguishing between individual and relationship responsibilities, which allows for better alignment between goals and obligations.

We will talk about your area of concern. I will ask questions to help you process the situation, see more clearly and move forward with confidence. 

Coaching with Ngina has been a tremendous blessing and the best dollar I have ever spent on coaching! It has been an investment in myself and it has paid back. Ngina asks the tough questions to help you get honest with yourself. I could tell from our first conversation that she loves marriage. I will recommend her to my friends and small marriage group here in San Antonio! ~Michelle S, San Antonio TX

Our Marriage Coaching Sessions:

Option 1: One-on-one Coaching Session (via Zoom call or Phone call)

Each coaching session includes

  • 1 (One) 60-Minute private coaching session by phone or Zoom call.
  • Depending on your specific needs, one follow-up email/printable worksheets to help dig deeper into your growth.

Cost $100 per session. Sessions are added as needed. Please scroll to the bottom and use the form provided to reserve our session.

Option 2: Coaching by Email

I get a ton of questions through email and on social media. Coaching via email is for you if you prefer to send me your story, moment, or questions through email and receive personalized feedback. Our email conversation will improve your awareness, clarify your vision, explore deeper truths, and develop workable strategies for your life and/or marriage.

    Email coaching session includes

    • A review of your submitted story and questions.
    • A personalized outline to increase awareness, build vision, explore truth, and develop strategy.
    • Depending on your needs, a printable worksheet to help you dive deeper into your growth.

    Cost $55 per session. Please scroll to the bottom and use the form provided to request our session.

    Benefits of Coaching with Coach Ngina

    To get the best value from our time together,

    • It’s important you’re committed to stretch and implement, not just talk about an issue or question. I want to be more than a sounding-board.
    • Be emotionally and mentally prepared (not perfect, just have the emotional and mental bandwidth to visualize and work on growth areas.)
    • If you are currently in therapy, you must have made significant progress. Coaching requires substantial emotional and mental capacities + the ability to do the heavy work of visualizing and building the future you want.
    • Be willing to take personal responsibility for yourself, even where your spouse needs to change.

    You will be coached by a professional marriage coach with over fifteen years experience supporting married women.

    During your coaching sessions with me, you can expect to work on any of the following

    • Identify personal and relationship limitations and obstacles.
    • Examine religious and cultural beliefs that no longer benefit you or align with your goals.
    • Consider what’s important to you and how much control you feel you have over your life. (Autonomy.)
    • Explore boundaries and/or collaborative dependence.
    • Explore your values so you can live a more authentic life.
    • Nervous system regulation and co-regulation.
    • Support and accountability for critical areas of your life and/or marriage.
    • And more!
    

    My session with Ngina was an eye-opener: I was particularly excited to realize that I have solutions within me and verbalizing them with her assured me I was on the right path. E. O
    

    Is Coaching the Same as Counseling?
    

    Coaching is different from counseling or mentoring. A marriage coach partners with you to help you navigate a question, issue or challenge with clarity and confidence.
    

    Coaching is not a therapeutic process and does not help a person heal from past pain and trauma. Instead, a marriage coach helps a relatively stable individual build vision and move forward in confidence. Coaching is about the future, about growth and important adjustments.
    

    In marriage coaching, the client is firmly in the driver’s seat. The coach’s past, knowledge or experience are not a blueprint for the coaching partnership. Instead, the coach helps the client explore and discover solutions that work for them. The best coaching is done by listening, asking questions and responding appropriately.
    

    Coaching with Ngina provided the space to freely share my thoughts and feelings without judgment. I was able to open up and identify specific areas I want to improve for myself and my marriage. Ngina gave me suggestive feedback and challenged me to dive deeper into things I wanted to process. We maximized the time we had together and I got better insights and understanding. I recommend her coaching services to anyone who needs a marriage coach! Lucy, South Carolina.
    

    Coaching and Your Marriage
    

    I’m a coach, writer, wife, and a passionate believer that being with your person should feel amazing: Safe. Settled. Warm. Fun. Like home. 
    

    Since I navigated my own tendency toward hypervigilance and catastrophizing (a way of dealing with things that came from growing up in a toxic, dysfunctional, high-control home) I’ve gone from feeling anxious and disconnected to experiencing deep connection and calm within myself and with my spouse. 
    

    And I just want more women to experience joy and peace within themselves and with their partner – without unhealthy conditioning and self-erasure. I’ve helped hundreds of folks become self-confident and deepen their bond without surface-level fixes, exhausting beliefs or minimizing the simple joys of relating.
    

    Coaching can be a game-changer for your well-adjusting relationship. You can break out of average, gain clarity and engage in ways that encourage personal responsibility and deeper connection.
    

    I found Ngina from her online blogs. I loved how she challenged me to analyze myself in order to understand the root of my problems. I was able to identify and understand my weaknesses and come up with strategies to work on those weaknesses in the healthiest way possible. Ngina was very empowering through her questioning approach.  

She made it easy for me to figure things out for myself by guiding me to them instead of putting words in my mouth.  She was very reliable and consistent and I loved the follow up emails with readings that added to our conversations. I had clarity and peace at the end of every session. I highly recommend Ngina for anyone who is struggling with their marriage or for anyone who has problems within themselves. Britney, Oregon.
    

    NEXT step: Reserve Your Session
    

    I am looking forward to help you work towards your goals of a healthy self and connected marriage. 
    

    One-on-one Coaching Session (via Zoom call or Phone call):  
    

    One-on-one Coaching Sessions (via Zoom call or Phone call) are currently available on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays. Please request One-on-one Coaching Session (via Zoom call or Phone call) only if you are available for Tuesday, Thursday and Wednesday for sessions. 
    

    After requesting a coaching session with me, I will contact you within 24 hours – weekdays – with information to help us get started and set up our call. I will also email you the payment link. I’m looking forward to help you work through your questions or challenges so you can flourish!
    

    Coaching by Email: 
    

    Coaching by Email is available Monday through Friday. Please send your story or question using the form below. To help you in that process, please consider focusing on the following questions as well: 1) Tell me a little about yourself and/or your marriage and what is currently happening. 2) What is working or not working? Where do you feel stuck?
    

    After requesting submitting your story, I will contact you within 24 hours – weekdays – with information to help us get started. I will also email you the payment link. I’m looking forward to help you work through your questions or challenges so you can flourish!
    

    Use the email Contact Form below to request a coaching session with me.
    

    Marriage Coaching with Ngina Otiende FAQs
    

    As a coach, what do you believe? 
    

    You don’t have to be a person of faith to engage in a coaching relationship with me (our coaching relationship is about you.) For more information, click here to visit my About page.
    

    Will coaching with you change my spouse and marriage?
    

    Coaching with me is not a means to “change” your spouse, or “save a marriage.” Coaching is, first and foremost, about you – your exploration, your transformation, and how that creates momentum into the future you say you want.
    

    What is your refund policy? 
    

    All coaching purchases are non-refundable and non-transferable.
    

    I am not available during the week, can I be coached on weekends or evenings?
    

    One-on-one phone/zoom sessions are currently available on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays, between 10am to 4pm CST. Please request coaching only if you are available for Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday for sessions. Coaching by email is available Monday through Friday.
    

    Important Disclaimer: 
    

    Ngina Otiende is a marriage coach and writer. She is not a licensed therapist. She provides no diagnosis, therapy, counseling, treatment or mental care services. No promises regarding the outcome of life or relationships is given or implied. All decisions belong to the client. Those who visit her site, purchase coaching, buy her books and courses or use any of her services, to the fullest extent permitted by law, release, indemnify, and hold harmless Ngina Otiende, from any and all claims, obligations, demands, damages, judgments, costs, expense or liabilities of any nature, which may have or may ever have against her, arising out of the programs and services provided by Ngina Otiende, including, without limitation, all liability with respect to injury, disability, death or loss of damage to personal property.
    

    Use the email Contact Form below to request your Session.