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Are you experiencing stress in marriage? Do you want to dial down the levels of tension in your relationship? Most couples want a stress-free marriage. (Or the next best thing, low levels of stress.) Nobody gets married desiring a roller-coaster of emotions and habits in their relationship. So today, you’re going to walk away with…
Can you really love someone you don’t trust? I used to think it was impossible to love someone when you don’t trust them. I thought the hurt of betrayal would eliminate all desire to love, making it impossible to love (in the real sense) someone you don’t trust. I’ve since come to see my thought…
What do you do when your husband disappoints you? My husband and I are completely different in personality. What that means is that we’ve had plenty of opportunities to disappoint one other. When we relocated from Kenya to America, I had to take a driving test to get an American drivers license. On the morning…
Your husband says something that sounds like defending another woman. It upsets you. But you don’t know if it should or how to go there without being a catastrophizing wife. Every month, thousands of women find this blog because they are experiencing some type of broken trust in their relationship. I have written on what…
One of the most common questions I get is: “Ngina, how do I get my husband to address our marriage problems?” The short answer: Grow. The longer answer… When I got married, and like most women, I was ecstatic. I married the man of my dreams, and we had this amazing connection and big plans…
Do you feel like the enemy whenever you bring up areas of concern with your spouse? Perhaps you can’t talk about problems without triggering each other and escalating tensions. Or you feel like you are doing the right thing, trying to address problems, but your spouse thinks you are wrong, on principle and method. You…