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Can you really love someone you don’t trust? I used to think it was impossible to love someone when you don’t trust them. I thought the hurt of betrayal would eliminate all desire to love, making it impossible to love (in the real sense) someone you don’t trust. I’ve since come to see my thought…
Your husband says something that sounds like defending another woman. It upsets you. But you don’t know if it should or how to go there without being a catastrophizing wife. Every month, thousands of women find this blog because they are experiencing some type of broken trust in their relationship. I have written on what…
One of the most common questions I get is: “Ngina, how do I get my husband to address our marriage problems?” The short answer: Grow. The longer answer… When I got married, and like most women, I was ecstatic. I married the man of my dreams, and we had this amazing connection and big plans…
Do you feel like the enemy whenever you bring up areas of concern with your spouse? Perhaps you can’t talk about problems without triggering each other and escalating tensions. Or you feel like you are doing the right thing, trying to address problems, but your spouse thinks you are wrong, on principle and method. You…
Persevering in marriage is hard because we get married “for the better” not the worse. Most people don’t get married thinking, “I can’t wait to “hang in there” with this person.” Or “I can’t wait for that time when we’ll struggle with communication and spend hours in therapy and cry buckets of tears.” Most of…
Are you fighting for your marriage and need motivation to keep moving in the right direction? Most of the women I coach and many who read my blog desire to see breakthroughs in their relationships. I believe in turnarounds because my own marriage is a story of hope. Besides personal experience, I’ve seen other marriages…