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I know I am not the only wife who struggles to come up with thoughtful gift ideas for her husband. Sometimes, the person closest to us can be the hardest person to buy a gift because it’s just hard to communicate the depth of our love with gifts and experiences. But no matter how difficult it is…
Your husband says something that sounds like defending another woman. It upsets you. But you don’t know if it should or how to go there without being a catastrophizing wife. Every month, thousands of women find this blog because they are experiencing some type of broken trust in their relationship. I have written on what…
There’s a common belief that men are more sensitive to “dishonor” than women. So wives are told to respect their husbands and husbands are asked to love their wives. Now, in all fairness, I don’t have a problem with the thought per se: I think men can feel slighted more easily than women. But I…
One of the most common questions I get is: “Ngina, how do I get my husband to address our marriage problems?” The short answer: Grow. The longer answer… When I got married, and like most women, I was ecstatic. I married the man of my dreams, and we had this amazing connection and big plans…
Do you feel like the enemy whenever you bring up areas of concern with your spouse? Perhaps you can’t talk about problems without triggering each other and escalating tensions. Or you feel like you are doing the right thing, trying to address problems, but your spouse thinks you are wrong, on principle and method. You…
“My husband won’t communicate with me, how do I get him to talk?” is one of the most common questions I receive from wives. I understand the frustration of trying to engage with an uncommunicative husband: it was the story of our marriage at the beginning. I also know the complications of destructive communication habits…