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I’m thinking about Mica Miller and the beliefs, systems, and people that led to April 27th. Mica Miller was found dead in Lumber River State Park in North Carolina. The medical examiner said she died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. Mica was the wife of John-Paul Miller, a man who heads a church in the…
Is wife-only submission a part of God’s unknown? Some people believe it is. A while back, a reader left a comment under a blog post, saying that “husband leadership” and wife-only submission are part of God’s “upside-down Kingdom.”1 Sometimes, Christians use expressions like “God’s upside-down Kingdom” or “God’s mysterious ways” to explain, define and even…
Is it common for wives to mistreat their husbands as they grow older? I’ll let that marinate for a second… Recently, I watched a clip where a male speaker discussed wives mistreating their husbands in old age.1 I won’t link to the video here2, but the point he seemed to be making, at least in that…
Most people don’t aspire to have an unhappy Christian marriage. People don’t get married to be miserable. No one gets married thinking, “I want a 5.8-foot child to take care of for the rest of my life.” “I want to be yelled at and put down and disrespected till forever.” “I want to married to…
My husband and I were recently watching a video highlighting the first all-female crew in Kenyan aviation. Many parts of the world have had their first-all-female-crew moment and it was great seeing our country in the hub. Our conversation looped around the brilliance and hard work we’d just witnessed and it wasn’t long before we…
Pastors and accountability is an uncomfortable mix for some Christians. I’ve seen people (myself included) told, “Be careful,” “Don’t be so willing to throw the first stone,” or “It’s a slippery slope,” when they address a harmful Christian teaching. It’s almost as if some Christians don’t believe church leaders are normal human beings who make…