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What’s challenging about growing as a Christian is how our understanding and perception of who God is can be limited. Let me explain. We got handed a belief system. But asking questions and wrestling with those beliefs is kinda frowned upon. Unless you “wrestle” and remain in the same spot, that is. Our deeply held…
Christians are still asking “What if God designed marriage to make us holy more than to make us happy?” A few readers have pitched the question in my direction as an argument for why marriage is hard and why everyone should persevere in challenging times. Now, I have compassion for evangelical and conservative Christians who…
Are men and women more different than alike in relationships? Popular evangelical teachings often portray them as two distinct species. But what does the research say? Sometimes back, one of my readers tagged me under a Facebook post discussing “love” and “submission.” I’ve written quite a bit on those two subjects on this blog. In…
A few months ago, someone shared one of my old quotes on social media. The quote is from a few years ago when I used to write general marriage advice geared towards helping women address conflict and improve communication in marriage. But I’ve since changed how I write about marriage (here’s a post with more…
Why is it so hard for some to explore why people leave the church? Why do Christians like to focus on “don’t forsake the gathering” while giving little to no attention to the quality of gatherings? Last week, I wrote a blog post, asking whether one can be a Christian if they are no longer…
When Christians no longer go to church, are they still Christian? I don’t know when attending a church service became THE sign that one is a Christian. But here we were. Many people believe attending church is the primary indicator of one’s faith. The thinking is so strong that not being part of a church…