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When Pastors Exploit in the Name of Christ
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When Pastors Exploit in the Name of Christ

Sometimes in evangelical churches, people are a means to an end. Pastors approach pastoring from a numbers or “growth” perspective. Instead of a shepherd-who-CARES-and-NURTURES-people mindset. I spent years in a high-demand, high-control church in Kenya (where I’m from), a church plant by an American missionary couple. One thing that was always in short supply in…

It’s Here! My New Book Courage: Reflection and Liberation for Hurting Soul is Now Available!
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It’s Here! My New Book Courage: Reflection and Liberation for Hurting Soul is Now Available!

Sometimes, the problem in Christian marriages is that one person is encouraged to have a “team mindset” while the other is allowed to carry along, unconfronted about their self-centeredness. Sometimes, the problem is that one partner absorbs all the responsibilities of relating while the other “enjoys” the benefits. The gap between what happens to us…